Do you hate taking initative,going to gym,working out;Hate waking up early?Love to stay in bed;push work on others?don't have a fixed schedule,hate taking showers,don't have a fixed time for anything;keep postponing the work you have to do and often question yourself"why do i keep procastinating?"bullshit yourself when you have to work that you'll do it in last hours,lie to yourself that from tomorrow,i will start waking up early and work,make plans on papers,but never follow through;always say that i will start from the 1st of this month and then repeat the same habits;Do you start working only when the deadline is over your head?
If any of these habits sound familiar,then you are a slob.Stop being proud.These are the patterns of losers and that's what you will be if you continue on this path.Why is a person lazy?
1)because we are happy with dreaming.We want to be millionaires,date supermodels,buy yacht,planes,luxury cars,own houses and at the same time,don't wanna do anything.That is deep inside our fantasy.To not want to do anything and have everything.
2)We hate work.Just the idea of work makes us start throwing fits and building plans on how to avoid it.When we were kids,we hated waking up early,going to school,doing homework,studying,but were forced to do all those things by our parents.Under their supervision,these habits are installed in our brains.But now as you are incharge of your life you don't care about anything and justify your laziness by lying yourself.
3)Technology-Personalised or home technology,itself is created to make you more lazy.It's purpose is afterall to reduce all hardwork and get you things faster,easier,and with minimal involvement.You just have to sit at one place,and it will be done for you.You can buy foods,clothes,medicine,liquor,TV shows,cabs,cars,meetings,talk to anyone from any place in the world visually,verbally,textually all in just one place.How is this not making you more lazy?Do all these things makes us permanently lazy?No.Because you still love playing sports,hanging out,partying,going to clubs,pubs,your friend houses,dates,shopping to malls and do all sort of shit in the name of fun.Your laziness is selective.It's only focused on certain aspects of your life which you find boring.You hate studying,working,learning,researching and love doing everything that is fun.
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The truth is you want to be successful but you don't want to work for it.If a dog chases you,lazy or not lazy,you run your a** off.Why?Because walking lazily in that case is not a choice.Similarly,those who are single if you get in relationship with the girl or boy you like,wouldn't you go on every single date or take any opportunity to meet her?You are only lazy when its convenient.It's the person choice based on the freedom you have.When you are not given any choice,you aren't lazy anymore.But when you are on your own,you find it convenient to destroy your own life.
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So Here Is Solution
1)Accept the control of your life.You are on your own.Your parents are now your well wishers and your friends see you as a unit of fun,they have no interest or investment in your success.They will be sad for a moment if you fail,but they will most certainly move on.So right now,your life is in your hands only.You are its master.Don't be slave of your laziness instead master your life with all great things.
2)remember what your parents had to do to get you where you are right now.Even then you didn't wanna study,wanted to sleep and only wanted to have fun,but they have pushed you.So now in their absence,since you're your master,you'll have to push yourself.The responsibility is now yours.Get yourself out of bed.Scream on yourself if you are wasting time.Punish yourself by grounding yourself if you have to.
3)Understand why you procastinate.Whenever you have some work to do,you push it forward by bullshiting yourself that you're going to start in 15 minutes.Meanwhile,in those 15 minutes,you might text,check out pics,or check out online content.And we come back to technology,you are surrounded by millions of option,choices and sources which are pushing their content on you,addictive,great,interesting content and their goal is permanent subscription,to get you hooked on it which is a language used to describe addiction.
You hate working,and on other hand you have hours and hours of new content that you love.Its obvious what you are going to choose.Now they are doing their job amazingly b'coz its their job but because of them you are fucking your work and life.So start now,understand the value of time or somebody else replace you in second because they are not bullshiting themselves.
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