Why people get stuck in bad relationship ?

I often meet people who tells me they get in relationship and when it ends up they find that they are getting nothing except wasting their time and life.Most of my friends,close ones and even I also have been there at a time.And I am sure it sounds familiar to most of you.
           People gets in relationship and after 2-3 months they find that it is not working,and even after knowing that it's not working they still choose to be with that person.So why people continue that relationship?Even after knowing why they choose to be still there ?

Here are possibly 6 main reasons why people choose to be with wrong person-

1-Afraid Of Being Alone-People afraid of being alone.They always want someone to be with them.Even after knowing that person is not good for them but they still choose to be with them because what if I leave this person and gets nobody in future.

2-Social Maintainence-We are today living in a world where its kind of like became a requirement to have a boyfriend/girlfriend.Just for their social maintainence people gets in relationship without considering its good or bad.Just to survive in this showoff social world we get in wrong relationship,without considering this wrong call could even destroy them from inside very badly.

3-Addiction-Sometimes relationship becomes like a drug.We get addicted to it.When people consume drug their mind starts releasing dopamine which makes them feel good and they get hooked to it without realizing it destroy them and it is same with the wrong relationship.Once you get addicted of any person it is very hard to go away from them.Talking to them,meeting with them,be with them,may be makes us feel good for a while but it is destroying our self esteem and our emotions simultaneously.

4-Imitating Others-This is also one of the common reasons because of which people gets in wrong relationship.Just by looking someone else in relationship and it is working for them properly we think in our mind it will same for us.But that's not true we don't see that every person is different,every person's situation is different,just because it is working for them doesn't mean it will also for us.

5-Happiness-Somehow,we have linked happiness with the relationship.We think in our mind getting in relationship will make us happy but that's also not true.I know many peoples in my relations,family and friends who gets in relationship for happiness but after 2-3 months it made them more sad than they were before.

6-Comfort Zone-Just because with your partner you have talked a lot,hang out a lot,lot of moments together you have created a comfort zone around that person.You feel comfortable with that person because you have revealed all your secrets with that person and now because of that comfort you don't want to be out from there.
       
Also read:How to move on from your ex-

Solutions-As I always say in my blog 'improvement begins with questioning yourself on a right time in a right way'.It applies here also.So instead of thinking like if it is working for someone else it will work same for me ask some questions to yourself-
(1) Is this the partner with whom I want to be ?
(2) Is my current situations allow me to continue this relationship ?
(3)Is this relationship is helping me to grow in any area of my life ?
(4)Am I with her for love or for fun ?
(5) Is this the right time for me to be in relationship ?

Take a step back isolate yourself and honestly answer yourself of these questions then you'll deeply recognize which type of partner you want in your life ?Are you in right relationship or not ?
       If your answer is No then instead of continuing that relationship and wasting your time there use your precious time work on yourself,explore new things,new ideas,acquire new skill,new knowledge and get better so that you can get what you deserve.