Failures Are A Part Of Life-

Yesterday,i was reading newspaper and there was a news published that a boy went in depression just because he has got less marks in his High School Result than he thought and he won't get admission in his desired college.And after I read this I was like what the freaking things happening in this world ?
     People are losing their lives just because something bad happened in their life about the way they not thought of.Nobody wants to be failed but we forget that failures are a part of life.
   We cannot learn anything new in our life without facing failures.So in this blog we'll discuss about why people get depressed or something like that when they face failures in life ?

In most of the cases generally there are two reason-

1)Society Pressure-We live in a place where we give much importance to the society than ourselves.And society treat failures as a worst thing could happen in ones life.Means,in the eyes of society,one has committed sin if he has faced failure in anything especially in 'study'.
   And people don't want to be failed because they afraid of society pressure,family pressure,peer pressure and many more.

2)Desire-Sometimes,we create unnecessary pressure on ourselves by our dreams,desires and ambitions.We get obsessed with our dreams and desires so much that if we could not able to achieve it,we consider it as failure and make ourself redundant depressed.

So How to overcome from this ?

Basically,when you face failure you get feel shamed.Such shame could be coming from parents,extended family,society,comparisons,e.t.c.If you ever get suffer from this you need to first ask,Who are you doing this for ?All this preperations,hardwork?Is is to really please others?Such major changes or exploring new things in your life,I repeat,your life,so people could pat you on the back?Are you dumb?It's your life.
      You're going to be living with the actions you are making right now,they are not.They have their own lives on which only seconds are given to your thought.They forget about you in the moment you're out of their sight.
   So why you care so much of other's opinion?They have nothing to do with your failures.It only takes them a second to criticize you and in the next moment they will forget about you.Then why you're obsessed with others opinion?
   Getting failed in anything doesn't mean that its the end of your life or career.Instead of this failures are a knowledge that in order to get success you need to put more effort,extra hardwork and more dedication.Nobody has achieved extra-ordinary in their lives without facing failures.
  Mostly when you face failures worst things are you don't get into the college you wanted,the job you wanted to,the promotion you wanted to,what does that tells you-(1)you're alive (2)your career isn't over.Well,that makes failure a minor bump that teaches you,Hey! This way doesn't work for me.Maybe I should try a different approach.
  I am sure you have met plenty of peoples or stories of people who came from shitty colleges,poverty,not many opportunities.never went any golden prestigious universities,who are sitting above you and ruling the world.So explain to me how can an exam or a failure break your career?
  People get disappointed and lose hope in cases when they worked very hard,and yet the results were not what they expected.The results are based on exams.Anything could have gone wrong.It may have not been your day,may be you're not the person who can handle pressure,may be you don't able to perform well under limitations of time.But that doesn't mean it is end of your career.
   So be smart and don't try to avoid failures instead embrace it,accept it,check where things have gone wrong,learn and improve those areas and get back to the horse.Be in love with process of becoming somebody after failure.
 
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